Moving forward, making plans, booking flights,,,,,,,,, breathe.
We are moving forward with our egg donation journey. I have talked with the patient liaison and the doctor over the phone and have taken a look at the online egg donor database. I am increasingly optimistic about this choice. According to the doctor, my chances of bringing home a live baby using my own eggs is about 8% per cycle and the chances if I use a donor egg are 47% per cycle. Talk about increasing my odds!! Wow!
We have booked an appointment to visit the clinic in Washington DC for the 25th of March. This first visit is free of charge except of course we have to pay for our flights and hotel. So that means we probably won't be able to take the trip to Sardinia that we had planned for the end of May,,,, but obviously this takes priority. On this visit we will get to meet the team and see the facility. It will also allow us to ask questions about the program and make a plan.
It will be a short visit this time, flying out on Thursday and coming home on Sunday. A bit of a whirlwind. Hopefully we can squeeze in some sightseeing on Saturday since neither of us has been to DC before.
I'm excited, and scared, and hopeful.
Breathe.
Dealing with the loss of a child is never easy, but it's even more difficult when you are an expat living far from home. Life will never be "normal" again and so now the challenge is to find my new normal. I am now back in the USA and the proud parent of two daughters, born using two different egg donors. "Frostina" and "Olea" are the loves of my life and I feel so grateful for the amazing women who donated their eggs and made my family possible.
Wow, exciting stuff!
ReplyDeleteThat is happening really quite fast and in DC.
Breathe...
Fingers crossed for you! x
ReplyDeleteThis is sooo exciting! I pray that everything goes SO smooth! You're right, the odds ARE more in your favor this time! :) Congratulations on this journey.
ReplyDeleteSo excited for you! I'll be sending lots of prayers your way!
ReplyDeleteMarch 25th could not come soon enough. Sometimes when things are this exciting they come together at a rapid rate. Very excited to see the optimism rising which is quite inspiring for yourself deep within and for those around.
ReplyDeleteNothing but the best of wishes out to you.
Wishing you all the best. So glad to hear you feeling positive about moving forward.
ReplyDeleteWe went for egg donation after two previous failed PGD IVF cycles using my own eggs. It was the best decision we ever made. It ruled out all the problems with my eggs in one fell swoop, reduced the procedures and drugs etc involved, and, like you, increased our odds of success massively. We were really lucky and on our first round of egg donation, finally got our BFP.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with your cycle - I really hope you get the same results as us.
Best wishes
Angela
Ah! My head would be spinning, too. Best of luck with everything, I hope it goes perfectly!
ReplyDeleteThanks everyone for the encouragement. It means a lot.
ReplyDeleteHow exciting!!!
ReplyDelete~Felicia
What great statistics :)) Great that you're on the path and feeling good about it. So exciting :)) Congratulations xoxo
ReplyDeleteGood luck! I know how nerve racking it can be. Just keep thinking positive thoughts! I will pray for you :)
ReplyDeleteI'll keep everything crossed for you! How exciting!!
ReplyDeleteI would love to help you on this road. I hit the low end too when I was getting my head around it all.
ReplyDeleteYou can do this - hope doesnt come easy and it hurts but this is the next chapter of your motherhood.
Everyone rounds 47% to 50%. Sheesh - come on! ;)
Best wishes in DC. Bring me some Winegums?
Wow that is super fast. Good luck mama!
ReplyDeleteKeeping you close in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteHeard that they are excellent.
Love and hugs Cx
Thinking positive thoughts and hope for you!
ReplyDeleteWe did the PGD IVF in Australia where it is more accessible than the USA....I think you are so very brave and applaud you for chasing your dream.
sending love
Diana x
I just found your blog through a blog hop and now a follwer.
ReplyDeleteI found your blogs quite compelling,I hope everything goes well for you
Thinking of and praying for you lovely lady x
ReplyDeleteGood luck isn't enough - I'm wishing you GREAT, ENORMOUS luck! x
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the luck in the world. x
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