I'm so sorry, there's no heartbeat.
Dealing with the loss of a child is never easy, but it's even more difficult when you are an expat living far from home. Life will never be "normal" again and so now the challenge is to find my new normal. I am now back in the USA and the proud parent of two daughters, born using two different egg donors. "Frostina" and "Olea" are the loves of my life and I feel so grateful for the amazing women who donated their eggs and made my family possible.
Thursday, 2 June 2011
Six Word Memoir
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I'm so sorry. What a beautiful, poignant and powerful six words.
ReplyDeleteThis would so be mine as well. WIll never forget those words as long as I live......definitely one of the most significant days of my live and most certainly the hardest, most painful, and devastating day......ever.
ReplyDeleteSharing your pain and sending empathy. I have heard those words also, twice. Anyone who says you can't love something you haven't been able to touch yet really has no idea. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteI could just sit here and cry. For you, for me, for all of us living life without our babies. Sending a million hugs.
ReplyDeleteSaying a prayer that your dream will be fulfilled. I can't imagine this loss or the devestation that would come hearing those words. Thoughts with you.
ReplyDeleteOh that is a sad one. 'm sorry you had to hear those words:(.
ReplyDeleteThat would be mine as well :(. So sorry for your loss!
ReplyDeleteThose truly are the hardest words to ever hear.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry.
Im sorry for your loss, and thank you for linking up with your memoir. *HUG*
ReplyDeleteOh, honey. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteOh, sugar britches. I'm so sorry. I've been there more than once. It sucks the life out of you. {{{{HUGS}}}}
ReplyDeleteThat would be mine too. Ouch. So painful.
ReplyDeleteThey never said those words... Just the look on the tech's face, and the blankness on the screen. I'm so very sorry for your loss... (((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteI've heard those words, too. Hope you're doing okay.
ReplyDeleteStopping by from Mama Kat's...
I'm not familiar with the workshop, but that would pretty much sum it up for me as well.
ReplyDeleteThose are very painful words. Very painful.
ReplyDeleteAnd I so wish you did not have to write a memoir of this kind.
Those words wound.
ReplyDeleteAnd the comments that follow - so much pain.
And memories flooding back ...
Thinking of you on your new road ...
I've heard those words too. Incredible that six words change you and your life forever.
ReplyDeleteI have just read your story and am heartbroken for you. I have heard those words but much earlier on. The heartbreak is intesnse but to get to 36 weeks. Oh my. Wishing you well
ReplyDeleteKnocks the wind out of me.
ReplyDeleteThe most painful six words ever. Very powerful.
ReplyDeleteyeah, six words that changed my life too, forever!
ReplyDeleteThose are such difficult words to live with. Six sharpened daggers that will continue to mangle one's heart for a long time.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry.
I remember those words, that day, that moment, the darkness in that room like it was yesterday.
ReplyDelete*hugs*
Those are the hardest words I've ever heard too. Thinking of you always xoxo
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Yes, that was the most painful, awful thing anyone had ever said to me. Love to you, sweet mama.
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